More senior citizens befriending Facebook
Sept. 13, 2010 at 4:13 a.m.
Victoria resident Patsy Miles is a wife, mother and grandmother who is looking to meet people who are interested in friendship and networking.
She also enjoys watching "The Ghost Whisperer," "Desperate Housewives" and "Extreme Home Makeover" on television.
If you were Miles' Facebook friend, however, you would already know this information.
Miles, 70, is just one of a growing number of older adults who are regularly using social media nowadays.
"Our kids don't write letters," said Miles, who checks her Facebook account several times a week. "If we want to keep up with them, then we have to keep up with technology."
Social networking use among persons ages 50 and up has nearly doubled from 22 percent to 42 percent over the past year, according to 2010 data from the Pew Research Center.
Additionally, half of Internet users ages 50-64 and 1 in 4 users ages 65 and older now use social networking sites.
In its research, Pew analyzed the age demographic usage trends of Twitter, social networking sites, online banking, e-mail, method of getting news and online classifieds.
Although Miles, who has five children and five grandchildren, has only had her Facebook account for about a year, she is no newbie to social media.
Her first foray came nearly seven years ago when she began keeping up with her grandson Hollis' blog, where he chronicled everything from his wild college days to proposing to his fiancee in Italy.
"I thought it was a lot of fun keeping up with Hollis and the things going on with his life," said Miles. "He was always busy, so he had no time to call on the phone."
For many senior citizens, connecting with family members is the biggest motivator for getting more involved with the Internet and social networking sites.
"You better get on it because all the kids are on it," said 84-year-old Shirley Schankweiler, who said her daughter set up a Facebook account for her last year.
Schankweiler has four children, 11 grandchildren and five great-grand children, most of who are also on Facebook.
"I used to e-mail, now I just use Facebook," said Schankweiler.
Older adults tend to follow their younger family members' leads when it comes to determining which social sites to join.
"Our kids aren't into Twitter, so we aren't either," said Miles.
Finding long lost friends is also a goal for many elderly Facebook users.
Sadly, Miles, like many others, said they have had a hard time finding old friends online.
"I tried. I didn't find anybody," said Miles. "It could be that I out survived everyone."
The ability to peep into the lives of others without them knowing is also a big appeal.
"People put things on Facebook that they wouldn't normally tell their Mom or Dad, so you can sort of peep into their real lives," said Miles.
In addition to the desire to connect with family members, Pew data showed that senior citizens were more attracted to social media because of illnesses they may have.
"Older adults are more likely to be living with a chronic disease, and those living with these disease are more likely to reach out for support online," said the data report.
Although Miles enjoys the simple pleasures of Facebook like sharing a cute story about her dogs in her Facebook status, she said she avoids putting up much personal information or inappropriate pictures, as many younger users do.
"We don't put anything on Facebook that would hurt us. We're smarter than that. It's the young people that do that," she said.
Keeping up with the Facebook mini-feed is a big priority for Schankweiler, who said she checks her Facebook at least three times a day.
"I check it first thing in the morning," she said. "I'm always looking at it. I don't have to do it, but I do."
The fact that wall posts and tweets have replaced phone calls and letters does not bother 80-year-old Yoakum resident Barbara York, who mainly communicates with three of her grandchildren on Facebook.
"Sometimes I think its better that they put down their thoughts and I read them than talking face-to-face," said York, who said she often access Facebook through her iPhone. "I hear a lot more from them, and they seem to get carried away more than when they are writing in ink."
York, however, is not naive enough to think that she can get all the details of her grandchildren's lives simply by checking an inbox message or status update.
"I know I get a censored version, but I'm sure I would get that face-to-face too," York chuckled.
The Internet in general is a big hit for many seniors.
"We get tired of watching nothing on TV so we get on the Internet," said Miles, who owns four computers. "Sometimes they're all busy."
When she is not checking sports stats on her Internet homepage, playing computer games or doing some online banking, Schankweiler spends time reading the Canton Repository online, which is her hometown's newspaper.
"I can check out the people and see if I know anyone," she said.