Family, friends mourn loss of child (video)
April 3, 2012 at 8:05 p.m.
Updated April 3, 2012 at 11:04 p.m.
POEMS SHARED AT KYLAR'S VIGIL
When God calls little children
to dwell with him above,
we mortals sometimes question
the wisdom of his love.
For no heartache compares with
the death of one small child
who does so much to make our world
seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling
the aged to his fold,
so He picks a rosebud
before he can grow old.
God knows how much we need them,
and so he takes but a few
to make the land of Heaven
more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult, still
somehow we must try.
The saddest word mankind knows will always be "Goodbye."
So when a little child departs
we who are left behind
must realize God loves children.
Angels are hard to find.
God's Lent Child
"I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine," God said -
"For you to love the while he lives
and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
or fourty-two or three
but will you, till I call him back,
take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
and, should his stay be brief,
you'll have his nicest memories
as solace for his grief
I cannot promise he will stay,
since all from earth return
but, there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over,
in my search for teachers true,
and from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love,
nor think the labor pain,
nor hate me when I come to take
this lent child back again?"
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done.
for all the joys thy child will bring
the risk of grief will run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
we'll love him while we may,
and for the happiness we've known
forever grateful stay.
But, should thy angels call for him
much sooner than we planned,
we'll brave the grief that comes
and try to understand."
Kenneth "Paw-pa" Hutchins led mourners in a spontaneous singing of "Amazing Grace" in the middle of a vigil for Kylar Johnson at DeLeon Plaza.
"Kylar's sunshine has been keeping my world warm for four years. I am sorry God had to take him from us," said Hutchins as he addressed the 25 community members gathered at the vigil.
Kylar's death continues to be mourned by family, friends and community members. His mother, Michelle Smith Johnson, declined to comment as she attended the vigil along with honorary grandparents Kenneth and Ruth Hutchins and other close family friends.
"And much time in between. I was very blessed," Hutchins said. "He was adorable, curious - not afraid of anything. And he loved everybody."
Ruth Hutchins clung to a red battery-operated candle that Kylar enjoyed playing with.
"Kylar was fascinated with lights. This is Kylar's candle. It used to sit on the coffee table in our house and he used to love to play with it," she said.
The last several weeks have been a rough time for the Johnson family. Kylar's maternal grandmother died on Ash Wednesday, Kenneth Hutchins said, and this morning, his father's mother was flown to a San Antonio hospital because of sudden health issues.
The father, Cole Johnson, was unable to attend the vigil because he was in San Antonio with his mother.
Maricela Garcia, 43, of Victoria, did not know the Johnson family personally, but organized the prayer vigil for Kylar to help members of the Crossroads community support one another during a time of loss.
"We're never really ready for death," said Garcia, whose father died six months ago after suffering a stroke. "These are the times when we realize life is too short. We need to make the best of it. Especially with little kids."
Copies of poetry that address some of the emotions that accompany the loss of a loved one - particularly a child - were distributed among those gathered.
The program consisted of poetry and Scripture readings and prayers by pastors Sam Hooker and Delores Ruby of Victory Christian Life Center.
"Death is something a lot of us suffer with," Garcia said. "We have to admit it's not our plans, but God's plans when to call us into his presence."
Gary Moses said he taught Kylar's father as a student at Patti Welder Magnet Middle School.
"He was always a very good and respectful student," Moses said. "I worked with his mother as well on several nonprofits. My deepest sympathies go out to their family for their loss."
Kylar's death touched Cathy Adcock, 48, of Victoria, who brought her 4-year-old daughter Abbie Adcock to pray at the vigil.
After hearing about the vigil on the news, Adcock said she dropped everything and rushed to DeLeon Plaza.
"It was very traumatic and it hit close to home," Adcock said. "I just thought, 'Oh, God. What are those parents going through?'"
Kylar's death highlighted the preciousness of the life of a child, Adcock said.
"We always expect to go before our children," Garcia said. "But sometimes God has other plans."