Author explores path to prosperity vs. path to prison (w/audio)
Feb. 9, 2014 at 10:02 p.m.
Updated Feb. 9, 2014 at 8:10 p.m.
Wes Moore grew up blocks away from a man of the same name, whose life was strikingly similar to his - until Moore's abrupt enrollment in military school.
In his book, "The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates," Moore chronicles the parallels that ran between the two fatherless youths.
One is in prison for life without parole; the other is a former White House Fellow, Rhodes Scholar and a business leader on Wall Street.
What do you think contributed the most to your decision-making early on?
That was one of the things I wanted to explore. I don't think it was just one thing. ... I think there were a lot of factors to the decisions I made, good and bad. The importance of mentorship and having people in your life that help you see that the world is bigger than what's in front of you becomes really important. People whose jobs it is really to add context and meaning to your life. I think that becomes crucial.
From reading the book, it seems like your mother perhaps played a crucial part.
I didn't want people to feel like this was a story of a good mom vs. a bad mom. I love my mother with all my heart, but the fact is that my mother doesn't love us more than the other Wes Moore's mother loves her children. Wes' mother bleeds for her children. Wes' mother tried moving them; she tried different schools; she tried a collection of different things. I think the question then becomes not, "How do we think about the support for a young person?" but 'how do we make sure the support comes through generational support?
What message do you hope to inspire within young adults?
The goal is to help them understand that we're all here for a point ... that we're all here for a reason, and it' s part of our responsibility to identify what that is. ... You need to make sure you're living for something bigger than just yourself. If you've done that, then you've accomplished what the larger point of what education is supposed to be all about.
Is there anything you regret about your experience in military school?
I wish I would have had a better understanding and appreciation of what people sacrificed for me to get there. There are things that I did there that I regret because they weren't good, but there's nothing that I would change per se because I know even my worse decisions have made me what I am. So there are things that I regret, but there's nothing that I would change.