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  • rachelj 

    Me thinks Debunker may be a VCSO attorney lol!!!! And btw coincidence hmmmmmm not so much.

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  • rachelj 

    Milking the system for years????? Get a life. He he has a heart problem serious enough to require aid to keep him alive. If thats milking you are a douche. I do know Brad and he is a good person. The charges were dropped because they were baseless to begin with. Either way the Deputy should have been properly trained for this situation and his/her inability to perform the search safely caused a person undue duress. PERIOD.

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    lmmc....Who? The Slew. LMBO!!!! some people just cant admit when someone they know or care for is an addict. Open your eyes.

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  • rachelj 

    If you think i am complaining about being finacially responsible for my children you need to work on your comprehension skills. I have no problem with caring for my kids financially or otherwise. I do however have a problem with a system that would throw me in jail and remove my children if they dont think I am caring for them properly(has not happened just an example) but will allow him to abuse his children on a daily basis. It is a criminal act to abandon your children. And it matters not how you feel about your ex either because the money is not for her. Daycare for our 3 boys runs anywhere from 295-380 a week. That is 50% of my income and when you figure cost of living runs on average 60% of your income well you see what I am left with. Quit crying about your responsibilities and be a man. Pathetic.

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    I cannot believe anyone can complain about having to be financially responsible for their children. I dont know about you but I go above and beyond even without his help. Yes I am angry he does not help for many many reasons but so I can sit on my ass is not one of them. I worked before him and I work after him and that will not change because I for one WANT to give my kids a good life no matter the cost. I do agree with the AGs focus being on the ones they can collect from. But it is not those parents who are destroying families is it? I know we cant police morals but maybe labor camps and such is not such a bad idea for dads/moms who dont take care of their responsiblilities. Because what they are doing now is not working and our kids are paying the price for it.

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    I provide Everything and have since the divorce. He makes more than enough to pay his support which is nowhere near half of what it takes to provide for them but he chooses not to and frankly I feel like the system allows him to make that choice. I have had to hunt him down and provide address license plate numbers places of employment because I m told they dont have the man power. And even when I tell them where he is they do nothing. See as long as he pays something every three months hes good.the only payment I have gotten this year is 20 dollars. Last year it was 50 dollars total. Anyway I by no means think a good coparent should be punished for a deadbeats crimes I do however think thete are many more cases of parents that walk away and truly destroy lives all while under court order and the watchful eye of the AG.

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  • rachelj 

    Seriously those of you who believe the system is not fair to non custodial parents have obviously never had to raise children on your own. My ex spouse is 31,000 in arrears in Victoria County none the less and he has only been incarcerated for non payment once and you bet your butt he came up with 7,000 just like that to get out of jail. He is ordered to pay 800 a month for 3 children and I am sure most of you think wow thats a lot. HA!! Daycare costs more than that every month. So I agree it should be equal and he should be paying MORE especially since he is just as selfish with his time as he is with his money. My point is the AG is not as tough as you think in all cases and that raising children alone is not ALWAYS a choice. I have had an open case with them for four years. Gone through every penny of savings had to move back home for 7 months and now I could lose my great job because I cant afford full time summer care for the kids. Maybe if they had been tougher on him in the beginning he would not think he could just ignore it like most do.

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  • rachelj 

    Sure is alot of stealing going on in Victoria. Economy or Element?

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  • rachelj 

    Could she possibly have been recording wrong doings on the part of her employer? This story is way too vauge.

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  • rachelj 

    Kolby and his ever present hugs :) will be missed so much here in Victoria. He had many friends and was such a fun person to be around. My sincere condolences to his family. You are in my prayers.

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