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What was once an unwanted burden
By juliezavala in My Turn
November 10, 2010

I read these words on the Alzheimer's Reading Room website; "What was once an unwanted burden becomes a labor of love." The article talked about how we all have the capacity to dig deep and find unknown depths of strength and love. They are so right.

I had always thought that the strength to care for my Dad was something I could never have. I knew I loved him - I just didn't know I was a strong enough person to handle dealing with his disease. And look, here I am taking care of him. I've learned a lot about real love and spiritual growth.

The miracle of this life lesson (that's how I think of it now) is that I'm not only helping my Dad; I'm helping myself even more. I can't stress this enough; the only way we can grow as spiritual human beings is to take that extra step. Push yourself just a little more and your life experiences could be so much more fulfilling and rewarding. I was gently nudged and guided into my role as caregiver for my Dad. A whole chain of events unfolded before me to help me get to the position I'm in now. And it's not always easy, I won't lie to you. I still have my moments where I want to run away from the responsibility. But I'm so lucky I have my husband, Robert, to help me and support me. A lot of times he takes over and gives me a welcomed break.

I don't know how much time I will have with my Dad. It could be months or it could be years. All I know is that the time and work I invest in caring for him is benefitting both of us. It's a labor of love.