Recently I was verbally attacked by one of my nieces. You see I have a my-space and so does all my nieces and nephews. We keep in touch through my-space and have fun with the games they have and it is just a fun place to go and relax. That was not the situation yesterday. My niece who lives very far away read that I had given a ring to her cousin. This ring was a family heirloom. I received this ring on my wedding day. My mother told me on that day she wanted me to have the ring and ask that when I seen fit that I pass it to the first born girl with our bloodline. It so happens I had all boys but my brother had girls. I knew the minute that my eldest niece was born that ring would go to her one day. As she grew up I would show her that ring and tell her the story behind the ring so when I did give it to her she would understand the special value that ring held. My mother died of cancer two years before my niece graduated. My niece graduated 3rd in her class and was accepted to A&M university. She is studying to be a doctor. So on graduation night I knew that my mother wanted to be there so bad but god had other plans for her. So before she walked up to the stage I gave her the ring and told her "she had nanny with her on her special night". This was a very special moment I shared with this miraculous woman. I tear up just thinking about it. Well my other niece for some strange odd reason chose to curse me up one side and down the other. She has said the most hurtful and spiteful things to me that i just tore my heart in two. I tried to explain to her that she was wrong and I called her a little girl because of her behavior. She blew up even more and began posting the most hateful post on my-space. She kept it up to the point she just flat out disowned me and my family. She does not understand why I just did not give it to her or just buried it with her grandmother. She has refused to accept that was nanny's wishes. Her mother has chose to let me know that she feels the same way. Mind you this woman is not blood related she married my brother. I deleted her from my-space. I then received hateful notes on yahoo messenger and I deleted her there as well. I do not need that stress. I did nothing wrong but she continues to rant to other family members about this. Does anyone have a idea of what I should do with this immature adult that is acting like a child but wants the respect of a adult?